Now they should turn on a recorded tape of their own voices, which repeats over and over, “You are the fairest couple of all! You, you, you\ You are the fairest couple of them all! You and only you! No other couple will do! You and you and you\” This recording of their voices continues to play as they make love.
At first the couple may find this game fun, but after a while the repeated message and the image of themselves in the mirror quite likely will begin to grate and arouse other feelings. The game may then seem silly, and they may even want to stop. It is hoped that their motivation, fueled by a desire to achieve a better sex life and a better relationship, will inspire them to suspend judgment and see the game through. They may also become embarrassed, giggle uncomfortably, or get in touch with sadness or anger. Yet by the time they tire of looking at the mirror and shut off the recording, they will have reached a higher plateau of relating, being imbued with the realization that it does not matter whether or not they are the fairest couple in the world—only that they truly love one another.
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